Of course there's nothing wrong with wanting a family; most people do…and thank goodness. We do need to replenish the supply. And a husband and kids are absolutely wonderful if that's what you really want. But if you don't have that, I think you need to love what you do have. For me,that's what being Speuntirlicioss is about. I don't think loving the life you have is mutually exclusive from planning for something new, too